January 30, 2010

Our Team...

Here is a list so far of what/who we have officially booked:

Venue
Kahler Hall

Officiate
Miles Goldstein

Photographer
Red Rose Photography

Florist
Wicked Willow

DJ
Maxim Glikman

Linens
Select Event Rentals

Dress, Alterations, Tux Rental
Venus Bridal Collection Boutique

Day-of Planning
Our dear friend, Melissa Zaba :)

Caterer
Europe Restaurant

Cake
Debi's Cake Studio

Invites & Print Work
Melissa Misch
Kathy Seidel, The Pleasure of Your Company

Make-Up & Hair
Michelle Aristocrat

Nails

Accessories

Rings
Wedding: Mark Rapoport, Littman Jewelers
Engagement: WHITEFLASH.COM

Yarmulkes

We will not be having a videographer. Our personal choice. We are hoping to get a friend/family member to make a fun, down-to-earth home video.

November 16, 2009

"Jeannie Gold, Wedding Planner Extraordinaire!"



Alex and I are huge Family Guy fans, and I've also come to love American Dad, another animated show from the creator of Family Guy.

American Dad
follows the life of pompous, overly conservative CIA agent Stan Smith, and his family. Roger, the campy, mischievous alien adopted by the Smith family, pretty much carries the show with hilarious quips and cross-dressing (mis)adventures.

This past episode, Roger pretends he's a super-organized, pushy wedding planner named Jeannie Gold, in order to help plan Stan and his wife Francine's vow renewal ceremony. I'm pretty sure this is one of Roger's most brilliant characters. The creators definitely did an awesome job mocking a stereotypical wedding planner. All in good fun of course!

Here is a clip and the full episode.

October 21, 2009

Amazing Cakes!

Cakegirls of Chicago have truly mastered the art and fun of cake making. Duff Goldman and his crew have nothing on these ladies! Our wedding cake will be much, much more simple than any of the Cakegirls cakes, but it's fun to admire them. Below is a wedding cake and misc. specialty cakes that honestly, are way cooler than the wedding ones, heehee. Their website is super sleek and stylin' too.




My personal fav ;)


It's a cheesecake, literally!


Amazing.




Looks like an actual toy car.


It's not just a piece of cake, it's a pizza cake!


A real knock-out.


Fit for king.

October 13, 2009

Decadant Table Decor by Amy Atlas

Yet again, I have stolen a post idea from another blog, lol. When I saw these dessert table set-ups, I plotzed. The designer, NYC event planner Amy Atlas, totally puts Martha Stewart to shame! In fact, they've worked together, so scratch that. Atlas's ideas are whimsical, colorful, and personal, and her layouts are so clean and well thought out. This video documents her creative process. Below is some of her best work, including a Halloween table that is TOO CUTE. Her blog of design ideas is a nice little resource too.









Innovative Jewelry Idea

I stumbled across these awesome paper jewelry designs on another blog, and they are so beautiful! Hila Rawet is the designer, and she is quite talented. These are from her Kipul line of paper jewelry. They are quite the conversation starters!

David's Bridal: A Bride's Friend or Foe?

To make a long story short: even though "the dress" I loved was under budget, I wanted to see if I could find something even cheaper elsewhere, but in a short amount of time, so I didn't lose the floor model I wanted. In the end, I went to David's before I in fact bought the dress I wanted at the boutique.

First, looked online to find dresses similar to "the dress". I then called the designers/manuf., got the names of the stores in the tri-state area that sold them, called them, and no luck---no one had any floor samples. Next!

Two co-workers, and prior to the dress shopping, 3 friends recommended I try David's Bridal. Anytime someone said this, I would shudder, recalling the many online rants and reviews brides on wedding forums left about David's atrocious service, rude staff, and cheaply made merchandise. There were tears, missing purchase orders and dresses, and letters to corporate. I ultimately refused to go there.

However, after talking to my co-workers, one of whom I've known for a few years, and finding more positive reviews online, I decided to have a change of heart and be open-minded. Before going, I just had to remember a few things that other brides have suggested:

*DO NOT go on a weekend. End of story. Saturday afternoons are HELL. This is when you will find the horrible service.

*DO visit on a weeknight or weekday. I went to the Glen Burnie, MD location on a Thursday night---it was empty. Only a few girls in there. So calm and no one attacked me when I came in. I was able to breeze through on my own.

*DO consider it a "discount" store when dealing with quality. It is HIT OR MISS. You will find crap (I did), and you will find some diamonds in the rough (I saw as well).

*DO NOT get your alterations there. Girls were overall complaining about their bad alterations. Overpriced and poor quality.

*DO NOT sign up at the desk when you walk in. Make an excuse, ignore them, whatever. They will sell your name. When I walked in, I stealthy dodged the registration table and hid among the dresses. No one even saw me, or cared. If you go in as a woman on a mission, they'll get the hint you don't want to be bothered.

*DO check out their cute selection of flower girl dresses.

*DO NOT bother with their shoes and bags---you can find these elsewhere for much less and for better quality.

If you are in the MD area...

*DO visit the Glen Burnie location, as brides have said the selection and service is better than other DB stores.

*DO ask for Robert or Lisa at the Glen Burnie store, if you want help. Apparently, they are quite popular among brides that have visited or bought from that DB.

In the end, I did not find anything at DB, as they did not have the style I was looking for. It seemed that they had mostly the same type of dress, but different cuts, designs (beading, etc.), and textures. In fact, it took me 15 minutes to find this out. However, I am really glad I went to experience it for myself, and saw that it did not have flaming pools of lava and staff with horns and pitchforks.

This experience has helped me keep an open mind during the planning process, which I think is really important when you are a bride, or planning a wedding. It helps you relax, find new ideas, or in many cases, save money!

So, I recommend you visit David's, but at your own risk. Follow the advice listed above, and just CHECK IT OUT. It never hurts. There are many women who have found their dress there for hundreds less than boutique/designer dresses. You never know....

Wedding Dress: Check!

Phew! I can cross this off my list. I purchased my wedding dress on Friday, Oct 9, and it is hanging in my living room! It is BEAUTIFUL and came in under my budget (yay!). I bought it off of the floor at Venus Bridal Collection in Ellicott City, MD. The floor model was in amazing shape--the paper was still on the buttons. It will need to be altered, but it was only a size too big, so that's not too bad.

Obviously, I need to keep the details secret from a certain special person, but I will say that it is strapless and ivory and makes my boobs look great, lol!

I recommend Venus Bridal Collection because the staff was very helpful, sweet, and not too pushy. Additionally, their selection was small, but nice, and included dresses in various price ranges, that are all fairly reasonable (for a boutique). Zacki, the owner, is a very nice, but shrewd business women when it comes to negotiating. I feel that it is because her prices are fair to begin with. My dress was, at her full price, $271.00 lower than retail, (I researched it), and she did give a small discount off of my floor model, which most bridal stores do, or should do rather. We all know the dresses are marked up, but I was surprised to find my dress under the retail value. The dress is very good quality and just beautiful, so I'm pleased. Alterations begin in December.

Oh, and it was the first dress I tried on out of 4 total. Amazing, right? It took me a week to make my final decision about buying it, or to keep shopping. Boy, did I make the right choice!

October 4, 2009

Shotgun Wedding?



Courtesy of awkwardfamilyphotos.com...
Hey, everyone has their own style!

October 1, 2009

Inspirational Blog for the Non-Traditional Bride

Offbeat Bride is a great blog for unconventional wedding ideas. Out with the old, in with the new, or keep both!

Great Centerpiece Idea

Found this on a weddingwire.com decor forum. I already decided on traditional floral centerpieces, but I just LOVE this one. Inexpensive, romantic, and pretty too, esp. with the candle glowing through the glass.