November 16, 2009

"Jeannie Gold, Wedding Planner Extraordinaire!"



Alex and I are huge Family Guy fans, and I've also come to love American Dad, another animated show from the creator of Family Guy.

American Dad
follows the life of pompous, overly conservative CIA agent Stan Smith, and his family. Roger, the campy, mischievous alien adopted by the Smith family, pretty much carries the show with hilarious quips and cross-dressing (mis)adventures.

This past episode, Roger pretends he's a super-organized, pushy wedding planner named Jeannie Gold, in order to help plan Stan and his wife Francine's vow renewal ceremony. I'm pretty sure this is one of Roger's most brilliant characters. The creators definitely did an awesome job mocking a stereotypical wedding planner. All in good fun of course!

Here is a clip and the full episode.

October 21, 2009

Amazing Cakes!

Cakegirls of Chicago have truly mastered the art and fun of cake making. Duff Goldman and his crew have nothing on these ladies! Our wedding cake will be much, much more simple than any of the Cakegirls cakes, but it's fun to admire them. Below is a wedding cake and misc. specialty cakes that honestly, are way cooler than the wedding ones, heehee. Their website is super sleek and stylin' too.




My personal fav ;)


It's a cheesecake, literally!


Amazing.




Looks like an actual toy car.


It's not just a piece of cake, it's a pizza cake!


A real knock-out.


Fit for king.

October 13, 2009

Decadant Table Decor by Amy Atlas

Yet again, I have stolen a post idea from another blog, lol. When I saw these dessert table set-ups, I plotzed. The designer, NYC event planner Amy Atlas, totally puts Martha Stewart to shame! In fact, they've worked together, so scratch that. Atlas's ideas are whimsical, colorful, and personal, and her layouts are so clean and well thought out. This video documents her creative process. Below is some of her best work, including a Halloween table that is TOO CUTE. Her blog of design ideas is a nice little resource too.









Innovative Jewelry Idea

I stumbled across these awesome paper jewelry designs on another blog, and they are so beautiful! Hila Rawet is the designer, and she is quite talented. These are from her Kipul line of paper jewelry. They are quite the conversation starters!

David's Bridal: A Bride's Friend or Foe?

To make a long story short: even though "the dress" I loved was under budget, I wanted to see if I could find something even cheaper elsewhere, but in a short amount of time, so I didn't lose the floor model I wanted. In the end, I went to David's before I in fact bought the dress I wanted at the boutique.

First, looked online to find dresses similar to "the dress". I then called the designers/manuf., got the names of the stores in the tri-state area that sold them, called them, and no luck---no one had any floor samples. Next!

Two co-workers, and prior to the dress shopping, 3 friends recommended I try David's Bridal. Anytime someone said this, I would shudder, recalling the many online rants and reviews brides on wedding forums left about David's atrocious service, rude staff, and cheaply made merchandise. There were tears, missing purchase orders and dresses, and letters to corporate. I ultimately refused to go there.

However, after talking to my co-workers, one of whom I've known for a few years, and finding more positive reviews online, I decided to have a change of heart and be open-minded. Before going, I just had to remember a few things that other brides have suggested:

*DO NOT go on a weekend. End of story. Saturday afternoons are HELL. This is when you will find the horrible service.

*DO visit on a weeknight or weekday. I went to the Glen Burnie, MD location on a Thursday night---it was empty. Only a few girls in there. So calm and no one attacked me when I came in. I was able to breeze through on my own.

*DO consider it a "discount" store when dealing with quality. It is HIT OR MISS. You will find crap (I did), and you will find some diamonds in the rough (I saw as well).

*DO NOT get your alterations there. Girls were overall complaining about their bad alterations. Overpriced and poor quality.

*DO NOT sign up at the desk when you walk in. Make an excuse, ignore them, whatever. They will sell your name. When I walked in, I stealthy dodged the registration table and hid among the dresses. No one even saw me, or cared. If you go in as a woman on a mission, they'll get the hint you don't want to be bothered.

*DO check out their cute selection of flower girl dresses.

*DO NOT bother with their shoes and bags---you can find these elsewhere for much less and for better quality.

If you are in the MD area...

*DO visit the Glen Burnie location, as brides have said the selection and service is better than other DB stores.

*DO ask for Robert or Lisa at the Glen Burnie store, if you want help. Apparently, they are quite popular among brides that have visited or bought from that DB.

In the end, I did not find anything at DB, as they did not have the style I was looking for. It seemed that they had mostly the same type of dress, but different cuts, designs (beading, etc.), and textures. In fact, it took me 15 minutes to find this out. However, I am really glad I went to experience it for myself, and saw that it did not have flaming pools of lava and staff with horns and pitchforks.

This experience has helped me keep an open mind during the planning process, which I think is really important when you are a bride, or planning a wedding. It helps you relax, find new ideas, or in many cases, save money!

So, I recommend you visit David's, but at your own risk. Follow the advice listed above, and just CHECK IT OUT. It never hurts. There are many women who have found their dress there for hundreds less than boutique/designer dresses. You never know....

Wedding Dress: Check!

Phew! I can cross this off my list. I purchased my wedding dress on Friday, Oct 9, and it is hanging in my living room! It is BEAUTIFUL and came in under my budget (yay!). I bought it off of the floor at Venus Bridal Collection in Ellicott City, MD. The floor model was in amazing shape--the paper was still on the buttons. It will need to be altered, but it was only a size too big, so that's not too bad.

Obviously, I need to keep the details secret from a certain special person, but I will say that it is strapless and ivory and makes my boobs look great, lol!

I recommend Venus Bridal Collection because the staff was very helpful, sweet, and not too pushy. Additionally, their selection was small, but nice, and included dresses in various price ranges, that are all fairly reasonable (for a boutique). Zacki, the owner, is a very nice, but shrewd business women when it comes to negotiating. I feel that it is because her prices are fair to begin with. My dress was, at her full price, $271.00 lower than retail, (I researched it), and she did give a small discount off of my floor model, which most bridal stores do, or should do rather. We all know the dresses are marked up, but I was surprised to find my dress under the retail value. The dress is very good quality and just beautiful, so I'm pleased. Alterations begin in December.

Oh, and it was the first dress I tried on out of 4 total. Amazing, right? It took me a week to make my final decision about buying it, or to keep shopping. Boy, did I make the right choice!

October 4, 2009

Shotgun Wedding?



Courtesy of awkwardfamilyphotos.com...
Hey, everyone has their own style!

October 1, 2009

Inspirational Blog for the Non-Traditional Bride

Offbeat Bride is a great blog for unconventional wedding ideas. Out with the old, in with the new, or keep both!

Great Centerpiece Idea

Found this on a weddingwire.com decor forum. I already decided on traditional floral centerpieces, but I just LOVE this one. Inexpensive, romantic, and pretty too, esp. with the candle glowing through the glass.

September 23, 2009

The Dress Shopping Begins...

Time is ticking away and I realized that I can no longer put off the dreaded dress shopping!

Today I sniffed around the bridal boutique in Columbia, MD and I found a dress that really peaked my interest----on another bride! I took down the designer name and style and I would like to come back and try it on with a family member.

On another note, I scheduled a meeting with my Aunt this Friday at the stationary store she works at, The Pleasure of Your Company, to get some ideas for the invites and other print work.

September 15, 2009

Invitation Inspiration



A few months ago, I stumbled across this neat blog, Oh So Beautiful Paper, that has some great invite/stationary design ideas. It's a great resource for type and layout, and event themes too. The young woman who runs the blog is a D.C. area newlywed with a passion for paper. Check it out!

The Wedding Invitation Design Begins!

Okay, so I finally got myself back on the wedding planning horse after a couple of months break, and I am now focusing on my wedding invitation design. I'm in Adobe Illustrator right now vectorizing a mum.

I knew from the get go that I wanted to design all of the print work for the wedding. That means the invites, response postcards (yes, postcards--saves money on envelopes and makes it easier for guests to send back), menus, place cards, and programs. This will not only save money on design labor costs associated with buying invites, but showcase a little of my creativity.

I will test-run a few items with Kinkos' printing, and if their quality runs short, I'll use a more professional printer. I've had luck with the Kinkos at Towson Town Center, in Towson, MD. They printed all my work for my graphics design class, and it turned out nice. Another option is gotprint.com. They did a great, and inexpensive job on my business cards. The only issue with gotprint is the quality of paper they have. At least with Kinkos I can provide my own Neenah or other brand of paper. We'll see.... My aunt is a consultant at The Pleasure of Your Company stationary store in Baltimore, so I know she will be helpful with advice and we can perhaps go with the printing services they use, if needed.

During my planning overload back in spring, I managed to tuck away several pictures from stationary and wedding invite websites of invites with images, typefaces (fonts), and layouts that appealed to me and matched the theme/mood of the wedding.

The natural thing to do was go with a green fuji/spider mum theme because of my wedding flowers, so I will stick with that for now. We'll keep all of the print work unified with the same floral image and typeface.

Starting with the invites, I'll vectorize about 3 mums, and then do 3 different invite layouts, each with a different mum. I'll try different typefaces, etc, and see which one looks best. From there, the other print work will flow slightly smoother, since I'll be able to transfer the same layout/image over.

I just have to remember the golden rule: KEEP IT SIMPLE!

September 5, 2009

Famed Baltimore Wedding Photographer Dies Tragically


Arthur deRoaldes Remanjon wedding photographer -- baltimoresun.com

More Here

Arthur Remanjon died in a motorcycle accident on Wednesday, September 3, 2009. I gasped at work when I read this article that I accidently stumbled upon. My heart goes out to his family, co-workers and clients. This guy is very well-known in Maryland. I knew about him well before our engagement just from seeing his photos in local papers and magazines. He is so talented. I actually spoke with him on the phone to get a quote, during my photographer search. He was far out of our price range, which makes sense. I wonder what will happen to his business? I am guessing his team of photographers will take over his upcoming events.

This is such a tragedy.

May 23, 2009

And the DJ is...

Okay, so sorry again for the long wait, but wedding planning has slowed down a bit since we booked all of the big ticket vendors. This week I put the deposit/check in the mail for the DJ, but overall, not much has happened. I think I needed a break!

We decided to go with DJ Maxim Glikman because:

1. CULTURAL REASONS- My fiance and his family (and several friends) are from various areas in Eastern Europe, mostly Moldova and Ukraine, some Russia. Therefore, we needed a DJ who could not only play Russian pop/dance music (who had a collection), but could speak both English and Russian at the wedding to accommodate both languages/cultures.

DJ Maxim fit the bill because he specializes in MCing/DJing Russian/English/American weddings. He speaks Russian and English flawlessly and is willing to translate at the wedding reception.

2. FAMILY CONNECTION- My future mother-in-law has worked with his cousin for several years, and he is well known in the Baltimore Russian community.

3. PROFESSIONAL- We thought he was nice and also very organized and professional when we met with him.

4. REASONABLE & KIND- He helped us stay within our budget!

Anyway, he is our last "big" vendor, aside from catering---which is to be done later---don't ask, the linen rentals, and cake (which is also done a little later).

I will probably start looking at dresses in the next month or so. Anywho... I will try and post more often!

May 3, 2009

Florist Booked!

Hello all! It's been a long time since my last post, but nothing other than the flowers have really happened since then.

I am very excited about my florist, Randy Woods, owner of Wicked Willow floral design in Catonsville. Aside from his designs being beautiful and modern, here are some other reasons why I chose Randy.

+RESPONSIVENESS. He returned my emails w/i 48 hrs or less, which I totally did not expect, but loved, and got the proposals to me when he actually said he would. EVERY OTHER FLORIST I met with either never contacted me after our 1st meeting, or promised a proposal one day and did follow through until 1-2 weeks later, after I reminded them. Yep, there were florists I never heard from again. I didn't even ask Randy to be so attentive, he just WAS.

+HELPFUL. He knew we were on a tight budget, and boy was he sensitive to that and worked within it giving suggestions, NOT UPSELLING.

+FLEXIBLE. Going back to the budget issue---Randy was very willing to stay in our budget. After receiving his first proposal, I sent him back my own proposal with how much we could actually pay for each item. He honored every single one of my prices/items, including dropping the chuppah rental down, and we worked together to get the centerpieces so that they were to my liking and my price. He even let me add some details to his contract and signed it for me. He's just a really nice guy and a professional business person.

+KNOWLEDGEABLE + HONEST. I literally told him at the end of the first meeting that he was the "Dr. of Flowers" because he knew so much! All sorts of blooms and their fancy scientific names. He also knew what was reasonably priced and expensive and was honest about that.

+NICE! I really liked his personality at our first meeting. Really nice guy. Calm, yet pleasant and not too serious. And very creative.

So I think Randy makes an excellent addition to our vendors :) Now onto the DJ!

April 7, 2009

Photographer Officially Booked!

I just loved Rosey at Red Rose Photography the day we sat down to meet. Not only are her photos great (online AND in albums), and her price was right, but her personality and professionalism are DAZZLING. She blew away the competition with her warmth and friendliness. I wanted photojournalistic style photography and knew we needed to pay more than the average boring traditional photog., but we didn't want to pay the expensive going rate. We got a nice price, and never went over our set photo budget.

To cut costs we skipped out on prints and an album and will make a coffee table style photo book on the internet, which costs much less than proof books and formal albums. We can also have prints made via the internet. There are several sites that offer the photo books, including Blurb, Snapfish, and Winkflash. Photographers I met with recommended Blurb for quality and reasonable price. I'll look into it more much later.... We can always decide to get a formal album in a year or so.

Our simple package includes:

8 hrs coverage on wedding day (getting ready, formals, ceremony, reception)
DVD of all prints with rights
Online gallery

I'll meet with Rosey closer to the wedding to give her a shot list (list of all the photos I want taken) and a formals list (family members and friends that are included in formal pictures).

Phew! Glad to get that done! Now onto other vendors...

March 30, 2009

Yay! We Booked Our Venue! We Set A Date!

We finally booked our venue and therefore have an OFFICIAL wedding date:

Saturday, April 17, 2010

6pm (ish)

Kahler Hall

Columbia, MD

It turns out that Kahler Hall's downstairs room IS big enough for our ceremony, so we are able to have the whole wedding, ceremony and ballroom reception in one building!

And boy did we get an awesome price!!! It was so inexpensive to rent this place. We are so pleased!

Check out the slide show of Kahler's interior and surprisingly nice exterior, which will, weather permitting, make a great location for photos prior to the ceremony.

Kahler Hall: Wedding Location

March 20, 2009

New Flowers

Well, I've met with 2 different florists, and it looks as though marigolds are pretty much out, which I was afraid of. I knew they were fall flowers.

And apparently, bright orange mums don't exist and dahlias are off season too. (Grrr).

So, with much consideration and consultation here are my new/acceptable flower choices...

GREEN
-Spider/Fuji Mums
-Button/kermit Mums
-Hypericum berries
-Spring Green Tulips

ORANGE
-Ranunculus
-Parrot Tulips
-Tulips
-Freesia
-Begonias
-Carnations
-Peach Hypericum berries

Here is my new collage:

March 18, 2009

Reception Venue Re-Tour: Kahler Hall & Ceremony Venue Tour: Wilde Lake Interfaith Center

Well, everyone liked the photos and specs of Kahler Hall, and especially the price--$1250 for unlimited time!! And you can't beat the convenience of Columbia and free parking! Here is a slideshow recapping the facility:



Unfortunately, we have to have the ceremony elsewhere. No room for both.

Luckily, Cathy, the event coordinator at Kahler Hall recommended the Wilde Lake Interfaith Center, in Columbia, which happens to literally be 3 traffic lights away! Low and behold, they have a non-denominational sanctuary (aka: Jew-safe), and rent it at $450 for 3 hrs. $1700 total for a reception ballroom, lobby, courtyard, and ceremony sanctuary and lobby----SWEEEET.

So, you better believe I marched my butt over to the Wilde Lake Interfaith Center (WLIC) today and took some pics. I am not doing a PRO/CON list, because this is pretty much going to be it. It is right down the street from the reception and we won't even have to do off-site pictures because WLIC has a great campus with trees, steps, rocks, and other scenic spots for photos.

The only thing that will hold us back from using this place is if Kahler Hall's commercial kitchen is too small for the caterer. We need the caterer to see the photos or tour the facility. So basically, if there is no Kahler, there is no WLIC, and vice-versa. If the caterer does not approve of the kitchen, I WILL BE PISSED beyond anything, lol.

I had to tour the WLIC by myself (no one was in that building), so any questions I had will be saved for tomorrow over the phone.

March 14, 2009

(Surprise) Venue Tour 4: Kahler Hall

Well, just when I thought Scottish Rite was our only choice for a venue, I stumbled upon Kahler Hall, in Columbia (my hometown!), on a recent late-night internet desperation search for venues. Originally, I had thought all of the Columbia village center community halls were too small, but when I did that search, Kahler Hall fit the bill---holding 220 people, far beyond our expected amount of 130. And the PRICE!!! We would save over $1,000 compared to the Scottish Rite, which is already inexpensive for a venue. So the next day, I canceled a florist appt. and took the 10 min drive over to Harpers Choice Village Center, and toured Kahler.

Here are the pros and cons:

PROS:

+Convenient!! It's in Howard County! We live 10 minutes from this venue.
+CHEAP!! OMG, we would save so much money renting this place.
+New and clean---very modern, and the lobby and bathrooms are being renovated again this Jan!
+Modern ballroom (and other rooms)
+Free set/decor time when you book---save even more money!
+Commercial kitchen
+OUTSIDE CATERING ALLOWED!!
+Provides tables and not too ugly chairs :)
+We'd have the whole center to ourselves.
+SUPER SUPER WELL LIT---unlike Scottish Rite, which is almost dungeon-esqe.

CONS:

-That apt. complex right next to the hall.
-I am really worried that the ballroom might be too small to split for the ceremony and reception. I mean after the ceremony is over, staff can help take down the ceremony location and spread out the already set-up reception tables and such to use the whole room, but where will we stick the guests while this is happening? I don't think we are going to have a cocktail hour outside in the lobby. Ehh, I'll have to map this all out before we book.
-Not enough bathroom stalls?
-Can that lobby hold over 100 people when the guests arrive?

Slideshow:


March 11, 2009

Photographer Search Over, Florist and Day-Of Planner Search Begins...

Well, I met with my last 3 photographers Monday and Tuesday. They were all very sweet and knowledgeable, yet some impressed me more than others as far as photo creativity/quality, personality, and PRICE. I will be making my final decision by Monday. Frankly, I've already made my choice, lol, BUT, I am still going to rest my mind and not make any rushed decisions or bookings. Sigh, I wish I could mush some of these people together to make 1 super awesome photog! I guess I cannot have my cake and eat it too----except at the wedding :)

What I thought was interesting was the difference between the (2)male and (3)female photogs. Each gender seemed to have VERY opposite business discussions and personalities when talking to me. Now, it could have been just a coincidence in the people I chose, (that was just who they were), or based on MY personality, but I wonder if I kept going in my search, if I would have come across the same results in how males and females conduct their business with others of the same or different gender. Now, I'm no feminist by any means, so it's merely an observation, not any sort of judgment or frustration/resentment. Everyone was certainly very nice and respectful, so no problems there!

So now that I am done with photography--phew! I am moving on to day-of planners and florists. Yowzas. Today I have a floral appointment/consult in Catonsville, and tomorrow I have another floral consult in Timonium.

While I was visiting a photographer, I also met with his wife, a certified event planner, who offers day-of services. I was really impressed with her, she seemed very organized and that she knew what she was doing, in addition to nice reviews on Wedding Wire (weddingwire.com).

So anyway, I hope I can get the other florists and other day-of planner out of the way this coming week. I just want to get this stuff over with!

March 7, 2009

Photographer Meetings Start

So I've met with 2 lovely photographers so far, and I am feeling better about trying to stay within our budget and get what I want in a photo package.

I am now thinking though that I don't need a proof book.

Here is a revised list of an ideal package:

1. 7-8 hours of coverage
2. DVD/CD
3. (Online gallery usually comes with any package)
4. 2 photographers would be great, even if one is an assistant, as long as I see his/her work beforehand)

I feel I can make our own proofbook through the online photobook sites I listed in the last post, and either can make the album the same way, or we can have a formal one made later, when we want to spend the extra cash.

I have 3 more photogs to meet this coming week then I make the final decision.

March 4, 2009

Photographer Search...

So for the past week I've been narrowing down photographers that have the best work, and package for the "right" price (within our photo budget).

As an artist and someone who loves taking pictures, excellent photography at the wedding is a serious priority. I want to have the photojournalistic style of photography, which offers more candid shots and focuses on details and emotions often not seen in average "posed" photos. There will be some posed photos, such as the bridal party, family, bride and groom, before the ceremony, but there will be many candids and shots of details (flowers, rings, decor, dress, etc.).

I won't mention my photographer contenders out of privacy, but I may post the winner later.

As for my ideal package:

-I'd love at least a 7 hr coverage (for getting ready, posed family, etc, ceremony, and reception.
-DVD/CD of all prints to print out on our own or email should be included, not an add on
-A proof book would be nice
-2 photographers would be really nice, but this often times can add to the cost, particularly with the type of photographers I am after.
-Some prints would be nice, but to cut costs, I have no problem printing with a professional service on our own
-NO ALBUM. I'd love to make our own photo book, something like this (after researching pricing):






So, we'll see what happens. I've made about 5 appointments so far this and next week. But this may take a while to make a final decision. Luckily I have some time. It will be hard to choose though, if I wind up with 2-3 photogs with what I want (price and quality), because they are all so talented! We'll see!

Budget.

Here's the story folks. We are on a tight budget. I want to even go below our decided budget. I won't say anything further, but knowing this will explain the decisions and postings to come. No matter your economic situation, saving money and being financially responsible is smart, especially when you are young, have college loans, need a house, and want to have kids, lol.

Venue Tour Round 3: Baltimore Zoo Mansion

Well, our last shot was on Feb 28, the Baltimore Zoo Mansion (indoor porch). I'm going to keep this a little shorter because we knew right away the mansion would not be an option.

Pros:
+Loved the wall color, crown molding, and rows of beautiful windows. Very simple, clean and elegant
+Neutral carpeting
+Nice staircase inside the mansion
+Away from the street (hidden)
+Much more simple chandeliers
+Chairs and tables included
+LOVED Jane Sheffsky, the event coordinator, she is SO NICE and friendly---she would have been a breeze to work with. Very sweet and personable.

Cons:
-SHAPE of the room. Picture a square, with a smaller square in the middle. That smaller square is the house. The floors and walls around it is the venue (porch). The entire event would have to literally wrap around the corners----NOT COOL. TOo cramped and people can not walk around and communicate smoothly and see everything either. That was disappointing. The online pictures did not indicate this arrangement. Oh well.
-ONLY 4 SEPARATE BATHROOMS. That are unisex. 2 on 1 floor, 2 upstairs. Not gonna cut it AT ALL!! How can you expect 100-150 people to use only 4 bathrooms! No way.
-No catering/full kitchen. Jane suggested renting cook tents, but that would mean extra costs for us and Russian caterers need a full indoor kitchen anyway.

For anyone out there looking for a place to hold a SMALL event. Please consider the positives, but keep in mind the negatives too. I would not completely write this place off for general events.

What a shame.

Here is the slideshow:

February 27, 2009

Budget Wedding Segment on GMA

My mom had Good Morning America on in the kitchen this morning and low and behold they did a segment about a couple who had (a decent looking--mind you) wedding for $6,000.

There are some things they did that I am unsure we could do, like find a great photographer for free, package deal catering/venue, but some things I wouldn't mind doing, like buying the BM dresses at a department store, finding a second-hand dress (tags attached), online coupons, and the fake cake idea!

Food (catering) and photography need to be high quality for me, and while we will do our very best to find the right price, if we have to spend more for the quality for those items, then so be it. Here is the link. For some reason I could not find a link/code to embed the video, oh well. ABCNEWS: A $20K Wedding on a $6,000 Budget: Their Love Was Real, the Cake Was Styrofoam

February 26, 2009

Venue Tour Round 2: Scottish Rite Masonic Center

After the slightly disappointing (price mostly) tour of Martin's Hunt Valley on 2/19, I was feeling hopeful about our 2/23 tour of the Scottish Rite Masonic Center on Charles Street (Bmore city). Well, here is the PRO/CON list and slideshow below:

Pros:
+Price. Now granted, they do not help with setup, etc., so that is why it is much cheaper, but again, we may be able to get help from the caterer or a "day-of" planner.
+Full kitchen, tables, chairs (sort of....see cons, lol)
+GREAT banquet hall: huge, 2 stage/platforms, clean, simple decor, modern/retro lighting, not as in your face and flashy. I was really, really pleased with the banquet room. Nice, clean slate.
+NO ugly carpet anywhere!!
+Coat room with huge window/counter
+Bridal lounge

Cons:
-NAUSEATING, and I mean it, odor of floor cleaner all through the main hall. Surprisingly, it was not present anywhere else in the facility though. It smelled like a latrine or dirty bathroom. It was immediately noticeable and made me feel sick. That is UNACCEPTABLE. After the tour was over, I sneaked away and asked a maintenance guy what it was and if it goes away, and he said they just cleaned the floors and it goes away. Hmmm. I'll believe it when I smell it! I may need to go back and investigate this further.
-UGLY, ugly, uncomfortable looking chairs. These were pretty unacceptable for a nice wedding. I'm pretty sure we'd either have to (whatever is cheaper): rent other chairs, or rent chair covers and cushions for the SRMC chairs. Alex and I both hated the chairs.
-Very grim and dark in the main hallway/entranceway, even with the lights on---and that was during the day!
-The dusty glass cases holding medals/badges/plaques that lined the hall were a little tacky and dated the facility (think antique store or grandfather's basement). This was more of a concern of Alex's. I see his point, but there were other things that were more of a problem for me.
-I am not sure I like that you have to walk through the bridal lounge to get to the only public restrooms. Now, I won't be needing the lounge for privacy, etc. when the guests are there, so I am not worried about that. What could be an issue is the maze-ish access to the bathrooms for the guests. Not a horrible concern, but something to work around. Additionally, I did not like the decor in the lounge at all, but no big deal, I am sure the excellent photographer we hire can work around this and make the prep pictures look good.
-After seeing the PIMP bathrooms at Martin's, the SRMC bathrooms looked pretty sorry, lol. But hey---they were clean and in seemingly working order, so there you go!

Here is the slideshow:
Click here for a direct link to pictures

Venue Tour Round 1: Martins Hunt Valley

Okay, so as I have mentioned, I am not a fan of the Martin's facilities. But since this one was brand new, we decided to check it out, mostly because it allows outside caterers. We went on 2/19 at night.

Let me point this out: If we go with Russian catering we WILL NOT go with Martin's, because it is WAY too expensive to rent the facility and the caterer together. It will knock out 3/4 of our budget, if not more.

And frankly, if we don't go with Russian catering, I don't want Martin's either, lol. We'll see how all of this pans out...

Anyway...I've posted a slideshow of our Martin's tour below. Here is the PRO/CON list:

Pros:
+Large, open lobby
+Nice crown molding on walls
+Nice floors in the ballrooms
+Nice bridal suite
+Well lit
+GREAT bathrooms: well lit, new, clean, and super big
+Everything is new, clean
+Full kitchen, tables, chairs provided
+All-inclusive service. They will set up, set tables, serve, clean, tear down, and man the bar.

Cons:
-Tacky! Hideous carpet, terrible chandeliers, staircase, and Roman pillar murals on walls in the ballrooms
-Um...it is directly attached to a GYM in a stripmall. Yep. A gym. Random! And kinda tacky.
-We have to share the venue. I really am not into that. We pretty much cannot have our wedding Saturday night. This is because it is crowded with other weddings, and we'd basically have other people around while taking pictures, ceremony, etc. Sundays are supposedly better, slower. I've been to other events where it was a shared venue, and you get loud music through the walls interrupting your first dance, and drunk---really drunk-- guests from other weddings running into you----NO THANK YOU.
-Price. Even though they do everything for you, it may be possible and cheaper to get the caterer to help with serving, etc. and hire a "day-of" wedding planner. This would require research.
-The saleswoman. OH LORD, this woman was so loud and in your face, frankly, I'm pretty sure our tour was the last time I could tolerate her. Ugh. I mean, she was really nice, but not my cup of tea. At least the Scottish Rite people were calm, soft spoken, and pleasant.

Well, here is the slide show, see for yourself!
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February 25, 2009

Venues Picky About Catering

We really want to have a Russian caterer (serving Russian food) at the reception, but apparently, almost every venue in the Baltimore area does not want us to. Or, the venue can, but cannot accommodate 130-150 guests seated indoors.

(Alex and his family and many of their friends are from all over Eastern Europe, which explains the Russian food.)

If we have a Russian caterer, and there are only about 3 in Bmore, we must have the wedding in the Baltimore area, as they won't travel. And, it's better to keep it in Baltimore anyway, due to most of our guests living in this area. They also must have a kitchen on site.

Typical venue responses:

"You must choose an approved caterer from our list"
"You must use our caterer"
"We don't have a kitchen"

SIGH.

I have tried JUST ABOUT EVERYWHERE, and I MEAN EVERYWHERE in Baltimore, and checked EVERY WEB LISTING, called around, you name it, and there are 3 places (SO FAR) that can accommodate our catering needs and have indoor space for at least 150 people:

1. Martin's Hunt Valley Mansion......toured on 2/19
2. Scottish Rite Masonic Center......toured on 2/24
3. Baltimore Zoo Mansion...............touring on 2/28

I am not interested in any of the Martin's facilities other than what is listed, as I have not been satisfied with experiences there or the decor.

I am waiting to hear back from the Lyric Opera house.

So far, we are not completely impressed by both the Martin's Hunt Valley or the Scottish Rite, but we have not ruled them out altogether.

We both really want to have the Russian food, but if we decided against it, or had only Russian appetizers, it would REALLY give us a lot more options as far as better venues.

I really liked the pictures I saw of the Evergreen House's indoor rental facilities and the M&T Bank Pavilion at the Hippodrome Theater. I wish they would let us use our own catering! I would love to tour those places. I have actually painted at a beautiful wedding on the exterior grounds of the Evergreen House, and I was IMPRESSED. I'd love to see the inside ballrooms.

Well, wish us luck at the Baltimore Zoo Mansion this Sat!


Attire

Updated October 13, 2009:

I chose black as the BM (bridesmaid/s) and MOH (maid of honor) dress color, because it:

a. makes it easier on the BM and MOH; it’s practical, and easy to find
b. goes with the color scheme, the green and black look great together!
c. is classy, classy, classy!

Two of my bridesmaids will not be wearing dresses due to religious/personal restrictions—which is NO PROBLEM at all, I want them to feel comfortable and be themselves :). All the ladies will go and choose/purchase their own style of black attire/dress within their own budget.

For the fellas, I want to have black tux suits, with a white shirt and citrine/lime green necktie–not bowtie (in the same shade of green as the one for the color scheme). I hate cumberbuns, so I’d like to leave them out. We may buy the ties for the guys (hey that rhymes!) because we know it might be tough for them to find!

As for my 2 flower girls, my niece, age 6 at the time of wedding, and Alex’s cousin, who will be around 11, they will wear white dresses with a yellow-green ribbon around their waist.

I made a collage of styles, some are ideas, and it also includes a dress someone has already purchased (bottom left corner).

Decor

I decided on my decor and color palette a couple of weeks ago. I always knew I wanted Indian elements added to my wedding, such as marigolds, because I have quite a love for Indian music and culture. So I knew orange would need to fit in there somewhere (marigolds). My absolute favorite color is bright green, in 2 shades, a kelly/grass green and a chartreuse/citrine/lime green. I decided to choose the citrine/lime green because I had run across some wedding pictures on the net featuring black, white, and the lime green, and I LOVED it. However, being an artist, I felt it was still a little serious, so I knew that the orange would add to the green very well. So orange, green, black, and white it is! Here are my decor and floral collages:

You can see how the bright green, black and white work well together, and the orange will complement nicely. The orange will mostly be in the flowers, as an accent. The black and white will also be more of an accent on the invitations, other print work, table decor, and wedding party attire.

I really want to use the garlands of marigolds seen on a traditional mandap (south asian wedding canopy), but hanging on our chuppah (Jewish wedding canopy). I may do the strips of fabric on the chuppah, as seen in the last photo, but we’ll see. These are brainstorming ideas. But, I really like the idea of the “mand-chuppah,” half mandap, half chuppah. (heehee)

Another idea I may try is making those lovely orange tissue paper “pom-pom” flowers seen in the top right photo. They are from Martha Stuart’s wedding website and are just darling—and very easy to make might I add. I would hang them from the ceiling over the tables, if the venue allows it.

You can visit my attire page for how I will incorporate my colors into the bridal party clothing.

As for the flowers, I want to use mostly mums (spider and other varieties), carnations, marigolds, dahlias, and perhaps peonies (not seen in collage). I just LOVE the green and white spider mums!! (the spikey ones). Any of the mums are spectacular. I love that green shade, it matches perfectly. I am NOT A ROSE PERSON . I am into the puffy, round flowers, and like them tightly bunched. White and green hydrangea don’t appeal to me because they are kind of cliche for weddings. I am happy with the flowers I’ve chosen so far. Once we decide on the venue, secure our budget, we will eventually find a great florist :).

Well, that should do it so far. Any other ideas will be added here later!

hello all.

Hey everyone! Melissa here. Alex proposed in Jan 09′ and we are getting married in April 2010.

Like many others, I have started a blog for our wedding plans in order to:

1. Make it fun for friends and family to see our process

2. Obtain advice and ideas from friends, family, and others

3. Help keep me organized and make planning fun for me and Alex.

4. Inform the wedding party about details that may apply to them

Please feel free to post any comments and ideas, but remember to check my wedding pages that will give you a better idea of what I am already thinking of or what we have already done.

Thanks and I’m looking forward to a wonderful day with Alex and my other loved ones ;)